Consider your angle of approach

There are so many factors to having a great sex life. The most obvious is how much you want the other person. How much you fancy them dictates the amount you will want them, the amount you want their body, and of course the more you want them the better the sex will be. Desire plays a huge part in our happiness. So for example, if you really want a pizza one evening, getting one will make you really happy. If you don’t really fancy a pizza it won’t have that great an effect on how you feel. The same is true for how good the sex is. You really want sex you will have a great time. You really want sex with a particular person for some reason it will have a huge effect on your happiness levels.

So let’s assume that you like the person that you are sleeping with, that you are having a good time with them, that all the other elements are good. Let’s talk about the specifics of the sex technique.

There are many things that you probably take into account in order to make yourself a good lover. You might look after your body and preserve your stamina. Perhaps you do Kegel exercises in order to make sure that you are strong and have muscles developed in places where it matters. You are aware of your own body and how to use it, and the body of your partner. One thing that is sometimes over looked – have you considered your angle of approach?

Let’s talk about the vagina as if you have a woman lying on her back facing up at you, missionary style. The vaginal opening has a top and a bottom. It is a sensitive organ, soft and welcoming when wet, and deliciously seductive. Did you know that the “bottom” of the opening is particularly sensitive and that it can be easily damaged? If you poke quite hard you can easily tear or rip the bottom, and that is going to make sex painful and probably nonexistent for some time.

More than that, the angle of penetration can make a really big difference to how pleasurable it is for the girl that you are with. Missionary position standardly isn’t actually that great an angle. Taking a girl from behind gives a great angle quite naturally and provides a good result without really having to think about it too much. If you want the girl on her back so that you can see her whilst you are fucking her then consider pulling her to the edge of the bed, with you stand on the floor so that you are coming in at a more straight or even upward angle.

The angle can make all the difference and it is such an easy thing to alter, consider playing around with it.