Sex comes in many different forms, shapes and colours. I’d like to talk about some of my favourite ways of varying it, and perhaps help you have a few ideas of your own about how you can mix up your sex life and make it more exciting. A change is as good as a rest they say, and certainly changing things up with sex is a great way to keep things fresh and exciting. So whether you have a long term fuck buddy that you are sleeping with and are looking to mix it up a little, or you are looking for a fresh squeeze, here are a few things to think about.
In terms of physical sex there are a near unlimited number of positions, all of which offer a wonderful variation of orgasmic results. Whether it is doggy style, old fashioned missionary, or reverse cowgirl, there is something for everyone and always room to mix it up and keep it real.
There is also different times of day to have sex. Evening sex is the best, you can take your time, there is no deadline, and you can cuddle up and sleep together afterwards. Morning sex however has its own advantages by a long shot! Whether you have a busy day at work, or it is a lazy Sunday and you have no urgent tasks to attend to that morning, there is nothing like starting your day with some sex. My pro tip: get someone to wake you up by having them give you a blow job / going down on you. Literally waking up to an orgasm is a memorable experience!
Surprise daytime sex is a rare treat! Our lives mean that our daytimes are usually filled with work and toil… to have a chance to mix that up with some sex is especially exciting as it is such a contrast to our usual daytime activities.
Different moods can make a big difference. We have all had sex when we are happy, feeling loved up, or really on top of the world. We have also had sex when we are really horny – that is a real treat when it happens. However, the choice of colours does not end there. Have you ever had sex when you are upset, or angry, or frustrated? The drive of emotion can make for an extremely powerful experience.
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