You know the FHM 100 Sexiest lists that are published every year? Of course you do! Hundreds of photos of sexy celebrities posing semi nude looking stereotypically hot and gorgeous. All staring at the camera as if winking at you in the knowledge that they know they’re hot and are sex gods and goddesses in the bedroom.
Well do you know what? Being stereotypically sexy does not translate into being a demon in the bedroom.
The Pretty Truth
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I never used to believe that until I started sleeping with lots of different women. My original narrow view of what a woman ‘had to look like’ to gain my interest soon went out of the window. One of the first girls I slept with had amazing breasts and a really nice arse, but she wasn’t the ‘media classically attractive’ woman. She had curves and her abs were not toned. She did not have perfect lips or blemish free skin. She looked like a real woman. Un-airbrushed and sexy as hell. And do you know what? She was a demon in the bedroom and certainly taught me a thing or two about sex and how to make a woman orgasm.
A stereotypically hot body like Michelle Keegan, Helen Flannigan, Beyonce Knowles or Scarlett Johannson does not mean that these women are any good in bed. (Disclaimer: no offence intended ladies and I’m sure you could all prove me wrong) Some of the best and most satisfying sex I have had is with women who don’t look perfect 100% of the time. The best sex I have ever had is with women who are just comfortable in their own skin. Confidence is a big winner when it comes to sex from both men and women. If you don’t have any your partner is going to be able to tell straight away.
I’ve slept with a page 3 model before (no I’m not blowing my trumpet, just stating some facts) but it wasn’t brilliant. She looked how a page 3 model should look – nice boobs, nice bum, full lips etc. But she just wasn’t the best sex I have ever had. It wasn’t her fault. It’s just we weren’t a good match sexually speaking. And that’s the other thing you need to bear in mind when browsing for a fuck buddy. If you go just for looks then you are bound to be disappointed when it comes to having sex. If however you take a closer look at the individual personality you might just find the right sexual match and it might not even be the one you thought you were looking for.
Stay open minded and remember: hot body does not always equal hot sex.
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