It’s always exciting to have sex with someone new. But it can also be fucking terrifying. You end up running loads of ‘What ifs?’ through your head.
“What if she hasn’t shaved her armpits?”
“What if he’s crap in bed?”
“What if she does a fake ‘porn moan’ during?”
“What if his dick is small and I can’t feel anything?”
If you let yourself go down those trains of thought then you’re more likely to run home and have a nice safe wank instead of exploring a great new opportunity to have sex with someone new.
So here are a few tips to help you enjoy some GOOD casual sex with someone new.
1. Make sure you fancy the person you’re going to have sex with
I know this sounds like a ‘no-brainer’ but you wouldn’t believe the number of people who have had sex with someone they just don’t like physically or mentally. Make sure the person you bang isn’t going to make you feel sick or disgusting after.
2. Clean up…but only a little bit
Make yourself look nice. Make your place look nice. But don’t go bat shit crazy and do a full leg wax/shave and spring clean on your pad before your new f-buddy comes a calling. This is a booty call, not a romantic dinner.
3. Don’t display all your nice food and drink
You’re there to have sex, not share all the nice food and drink you’ve bought for yourself. Put all your nice groceries away and out of sight. If your fuck buddy wants a drink, they can get a glass of water or get something themselves from the off license.
4. Remember your schedule and your alarm
You’re not there to spend hours talking or cozying up in bed after you’ve fucked. You’re there to fuck and enjoy each other. So if you’re not up for post-coital chat, make sure you remember that thing you’ve got to do and let your f-buddy know that it’s probably not best that they stay the night.
If you remember these rules, then you should enjoy your casual sex a lot more and generally be more chilled out.
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