If you have not had sex in a while, you will likely find yourself feeling hornier than usual. The drive of our libido is driven by a number of other factors alongside the length of time between sex sessions. The time of year is a really huge influencer, most of us are much more motivated to seek out a fuck buddy or a sex partner during the spring and summer months than we are during the middle of winter. This is all hard-wired into us from the days before we had consistent electricity and fruit all year round. During the winter months, your job was to stay warm and stay alive! It was only during spring, released from the hardship of winter, that you could truly roam without fear to hook up with someone. So there are times when you will find yourself hornier simply because of the time of year.
Given that there are times where you want sex more, where the hormones fill your body driving the need to feel someone else’s flesh against yours more powerfully than usual, what can you do about it? Well, the first thing is to take action. Go out with friends, phone a few potential playmates and ask them for a drink, jump online and send a few girls messages to see if they are interested. You might be feeling shy or reticent from doing any of this. It can be hard, there is always rejection involved no matter how suave and sophisticated you are, and you might be a little hesitant to put yourself out there and making yourself vulnerable in this way. Well, there is good news. The same libido which is driving you and making you more unhappy whilst you do not have a fuck buddy, is the same thing that will help you hook up and find one! Here is how!
Letting the hormones be your guide
Let the hormones and the horniness drive you. By allowing the feeling, by embracing the need and desire, you will find that you are able to more easily ignore the voices in your head telling you not to bother. You can smash through the fear holding you back by using your powerful libido to drive you forward. Allowing that desire to come through also can make you more attractive to the opposite sex. There is nothing sexier than being wanted and allowing yourself to show that you want the other person will help them to hook up with you more easily.
So if you are feeling horny, embrace it. You will find that it can help you find the hookup you are looking for.
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