An introduction to using rope to have kinky sex

Kinky sex has started to become a little more main stream – in many ways it feels like in a few decades time what is currently considered a little taboo and “naughty” might end up becoming just normal playing between adults! This does beg the question, how much of the enjoyment comes from the element of it being outside of the norm, of it being about pushing boundaries and being naughty. If it became normal would it a get a little boring, a little normal and therefore not that fun? From what I have experienced, I do not think that this is the case, I think that the act of being restrained is intrinstically powerful, and for a woman who is into it, will remain sexy regardless of how we start to view it as a society.

A beginners guide to tying up a girl

If you are new to the act of kicky sex, but are thinking about having a go, before jumping in there are a few things that are worth know. I am going to try and take you through a few basics here.

• The rope: There are different types of rope, and it is really worth knowing this. Until you start thinking about it a rope is a rope, but there is a big difference between a nylon rope which feels a little smooth and plastic against the skin (which isn’t that nice) verses a good hemp rope that feels rough and real (much better!). Choose your rope well.
• Learn some knots first: There are some great videos online, it is really worth learning a few knots before you get in and try it. I would advise learning one knot really well, rather than 5 badly. Actually you really only need one! So master one first, and expand your ability as you get more into it.
• Safety – buy a pair of surgeon scissors: There is a very small chance of something going wrong, and in that event you want to be able to immediately release everything. A pair of surgeon scissors are the exact thing to have on hand. They cut through everything, and cost less than a cup of coffee on Ebay, so pick some up so that you never have to use them.
• Get a safety word: This is important because it allows you to not worry about pushing things too far. If you do, they can stop it quickly and easily. This is a real must.
• Try it! This is the most important step!!! Get in there and give it a go, it is the only way to learn, and trust me, learning is really fun!!!!

Have fun – stay safe – be experimental!