Less is more? Nonsense! With sex, more is more!

We have an old phrase that less is more. There are many situations and occasions where this stands strong. Sometimes the less you say in an email, the more that the main objective of the email comes across. When you are talking to someone, the less you say, the more your words carry gravitas. The less food you put on a plate, the more people pay attention to tasting the food that is there. When someone asks for a recommendation for somewhere to go to eat, if you recommend one place they will likely go there, if you give them 10 options you will leave them with decision paralysis. Less is more.

When it comes to sex and the sexual marketplace, this does not hold true. In this environment, more is more. When you are first contacting people online, the more messages you send out, the more likely you are to hook up with some. When you do have sex with a fuck buddy, the more times you have sex with them, the better your night is. The more times you sleep with a fuck buddy the more likely they are to want to come back for more. The more fuck buddies that you have in your life, the more easily you will attract newer fuck buddies and the happier you will be with your sex life. When you are seducing someone, less really is more! The less you talk, and the more you do, the more successful you will be.

This is not an area of your life where restraint is beneficial in any way. When you diet and eat less food, this can benefit the body and make you healthier and happier. When it comes to sex, having less does not produce any health benefits, the opposite is true! The more sex you have, the happier you are, the more healthy hormones you have working their way around your body, the more you are motivated to be fit and successful… less it not more. More is more!

So when your fuck buddy makes a booty call, your default position should be to say yes. If you have the option of having more than one fuck buddy, you should take that option. When you are having sex, put aside any thoughts of holding back to “sweeten” things, this is not a good choice. More is more, never forget it.