Many people have many different ways of talking about casual sex and fuck buddies, but listening to everyone in the pub recently made me realise just how many different types of casual sex there actually are.
It’s worthwhile knowing what types of sex it is possible to have emotionally and physically to help you identify and hopefully meet the right fuck buddy for you.
1. Rec Sex
If you’re having sex outside of a committed relationship and it comes from a wholly positive place between two (or more) consenting adults, then you’re having rec sex. This is the best type of sex to enjoy if you’re generally just happy with yourself and your life and are mooching about for some fun.
2. Occasion Sex
If you’re having this then you belong in the ‘one night stand’ or ‘casual hook up’ bracket. Basically this is the sex you have with someone you just met but are unlikely to meet up with again.
3. Sex by Appointment
Not to be confused with the booty call, if you’ve arranged more then 24 hours beforehand with someone to meet up and have sex, then you’re in the appointment bracket.
4. Hate Sex
If you have sex with someone you hate with almost every pore of your being…but find them irresistibly attractive in bed, then you are having hate sex. This can sometimes be hotter then hot…but it can also be worse then bad. Approach with caution and remember that you’re a human being.
5. Ex Sex
Many have been there…many have been successful…many have failed. If you’re still meeting up with someone you used to go out with for sex, then you’re in the ex-sex category. It can be good it can be bad. It totally depends on the nature of the break up.
6. Pity Fuck
This one is to be avoided wherever possible as it is cruel and nasty to both parties. It demeans the person dishing it out and humiliates the person on the receiving end. It could be someone you feel sorry for and who has had a crush on you for a while or it could be someone who you know hasn’t had sex in a long time and you feel it’s your duty to help them out. We suggest avoiding this at all costs as by the time you come out the other end, you’re both liable to be more mangled emotionally.
7. Rebound Sex
The moment you’ve broken up with someone…you spring straight into bed with someone else. That’s the rebound sex effect and if this is you…then you’re in the Rebound Sex bracket.
8. The Booty Call
Only applicable less then 24 hours before you fuck. If you text someone (usually after 10 or 11pm) just to arrange a quick casual hook up, then this is the booty call. If you do this often, then this is the kind of sex you’re having.
These are the main types we have so far been able to identify, but if you have any other different types you know of, then feel free to share.
Happy fucking!
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