We promised and we delivered! Guys, the girls were told what they need to stop doing in the bedroom in order to get better at sex. Now it’s your turn to find out what it is you’re doing wrong! Pay close attention as you will all be guilty of one of these blunders at some point in your sex lives.
1. Not Listening
“But I do listen!” most of you will cry. Well not according to nearly 8.5 million women who took part in a sex survey for multiple dating sites in the past 3 years. According to the majority of women the number 1 sin for most guys is not listening to her in the bedroom. This means looking out for both verbal and non verbal cues fellas. Pay attention to what your lady wants and you’ll be having much better sex in no time at all.
2. Not being Direct enough
All that bullshit you read and hear about in the movies, television, the general media about women liking a guy to be a gentleman in the bedroom…rubbish. You can be a gentleman all you like outside, but this will get you nowhere in sex. Women have stated that they want to feel a guy ‘wants her’. This means dropping casual statements like ‘fancy a fuck?’ or ‘my bed’s cold’ and switching up a gear to statements like ‘I want you, now!’ or ‘I am getting so turned on just by looking at you right now.’ Man up guys!
3. Not grooming
Casual is fine. Dirty-casual less fine. A lot of PUAs including the master ‘Style’ (real name Neil Strauss) agree 100% with women on this one: a well groomed man will win hands down every time against a bloke who’s dirty and smelly. Keep it clean lads and you’ll be making inroads into her knickers in no time at all.
4. Not using your voice
Guilty as charged all of us on this one guys. Women love it when a man is telling them what he’s about to do to them. It sends the endorphin levels rocketing up and gets both parties in the mood for some great sex. Don’t stay silent. Tell your lady how you’re going to fuck her and revel in her response.
5. Not knowing the clitoris
Any guy who thinks women don’t enjoy sex as much as men do clearly hasn’t slept with enough women. Women have an organ that is designed purely for sexual stimulation; the clitoris. And yet most guys seem to have an unerring capacity to ignore or fail to explore this crucial sexual organ. If you’re not sure where it is, look it up! Be enthusiastic about exploring this area with your lady as it’s one way you’re guaranteed to give her an orgasm of some sort when correctly stimulated.
We’ll be back with more tips on how to impress your lady in the bedroom. In the meantime guys, pay attention and happy fucking!
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