A good fuck is something special. A bad fuck is best forgotten. Yet there are still many women making the same mistakes in the bedroom despite their being a thousand articles online and off repeating these problems again and again. We’ve recently had a spate of email from men complaining that some of the fuck buddies they’re meeting up with are clearly faking their orgasms or just generally doing things that are a complete turn off.
So this one goes out to all our female members. Heads up and ears open girls.
1. Stop Faking It!
If you’re not having an orgasm it doesn’t help you or your partner by faking it. He needs to know if you’re not coming so he can work on fixing that! Overly loud moans and noises can fool some naïve blokes, but not for most of us. Plus how shit do you both feel knowing that you’ve just faked it? Stop faking!
2. Kicking a dog when it’s down
Imagine having a puppy who’s over excited to see you when you walk in? Now imaging kicking that puppy over and over every time? That poor puppy will soon stop getting excited to see you and run away. Same rings true for when a guy shows interest in you sexually. If you want to maintain his interest, show him the same level, even if you’ve had a shit day and aren’t feeling it. You’ll both soon be happier in the bedroom!
3. Beds are mainly for sleeping
‘She’s too boring and always wants to have sex in the bedroom with the lights off/on...” This is a common complaint from guys and one you can easily fix by being more adventurous. Have sex everywhere but the bedroom and don’t be afraid to play with the light levels.
4. Don’t wait…Initiate!
Nothing turns a guy on faster than you demanding sex from him rather than the other way around.
5. Show, Tell, Communicate!
Ladies as much as you’d like us to be; we’re not fucking mind readers. If you aren’t enjoying yourself, tell us. If we’re doing something right, tell us. If you’re having an orgasm, tell us! This doesn’t have to be literal; we can pick up on body signals during sex, but make it clear!
There are a number of other mistakes that women seem to be making consistently and we will address these in the next post. And don’t worry ladies we will be running a series on the mistakes that blokes make in the bedroom too.
In the meantime; happy fucking!
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