There is a lot of rubbish that you don’t have to deal with when it comes to having an f-buddy. You don’t have to lie about anything – you have a clear agreement that means you can be super honest with each other about everything. You don’t have the commitment, which means you can spend your time and resource wherever you want to regardless of the other person. You haven’t close the door on anything, if you go on holiday and meet someone you are free and able to do whatever you want. As there is no long term commitment in place you also don’t actually stop making an effort. When you are married you are locked in, so if you are a bit shit to the other person they have to stick around. When you are a fuck buddy, if you are a bit shit then the other person will leave. This ensures that both sides are good to each other. The set up is fantastic.
One of things you don’t have to mess about with if you don’t want to is the whole dating thing. There is a whole lot of uncertainty and smoke and mirrors with dating. You never know how it is going to end, how it pans out, and you certainly don’t know if sex is waiting for you on the other side of things. So in a situation where you are on a night out and you want to get laid, how can you make this happen? There are lots of really good things you can do to help ensure this – but there is one golden rule that I swear by.
Multiple venues – 3 is the charm
Whether you are out in a traditional dating set up, or you are meeting an old or new potential fuck buddy, you know you want to have sex at the end of the night. The one thing you can do is do 3 venues. See everytime you change venue, the brain sees it as a new experience. The new place brings with it a sense of a new day, a new thing, a new experience. Even moving from one pub to the next has this effect. What that leaves you with is a change to make one night out feel like 3 nights out, and everyone knows what happens on the third date... right?!
Always do 3 venues, and your chances of ending the night in bed are more than tripled.
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