The Rules of Casual Sex?

One thing I’ve learned about sex, is that each encounter is different to the next. Oh sure I get to have sex with a new person every now and then, but the build up is usually different and the actual sex different. Both physically and emotionally, casual sex means different things for me at different times. It got me to thinking about the rules of casual sex and if they are rigid or are in any way flexible. Let’s take a look.

Rules of Casual Sex
1. Try new things
Yes it’s true that with casual sex there is less worry about a new position not being liked by your partner. However just because you want to ride the rodeo and go to town with your fuck buddy doesn’t mean you always should. It totally depends on how your partner feels. Don’t be afraid to try new positions and new techniques and fetishes, but be sure to discuss some of the more extreme tastes before trying them.

2. Don’t act like a boyfriend
This is true. You shouldn’t mislead a fuck buddy into thinking that you want more than sex from the relationship. If you do it can really hurt feelings (yours included). That said, don’t treat your partners like disposable pleasure toys. These are human beings – like you – that you’re dealing with. Would you like to be treated as a disposable play thing? Show respect and you’ll earn respect in return.

3. Engage in Fantasy
Casual sex is indeed the perfect place to indulge in fantasy, but you need to let your partner know of any specific fantasies before engaging in them. You don’t want your wild side to leave a fuck buddy feeling awkward or nervous. Just be upfront about what it is you want to try and remember that your partner has fantasies too.

4. Don’t meet friends
This is casual sex you’re into, not ‘Meet the Parents’ or ‘friends’ of your f-buddy. The moment you start to get involved with your buddy’s life is the moment you’ve become more than a fuck buddy. Avoid friends and family, but remember to be polite in your refusal if it’s offered.