Whether you already have a fuck buddy or you are looking for one, there are a multitude of reasons why having a friends with benefits relationship can be a great thing. Everyone benefits from having more sex. You both get the happy hormones, it relieves stress and tension in the brain and the body, and it is super fun. The danger is always that the no stings attached relationship starts to grow strings, then one day you wake up and you have a real problem! There are some basic rules of the game on how to have health no string attached relationship. If you want to have a fuck buddy and keep them, then here are my top tips to follow.
Be Honest
This is really key. You and your partner need to be on the same page, so being honest keeps it that way. There are other additional benefits that come with this too! If you are honest, you might find that some of your secret desires are things that they are willing to try out with you. It is a win win!
Always aim for amazing sex
The point of a fuck buddy is to have mind blowing sex. If it is not, then talk to the person about why. Sharing tips on how to make them better in bed will not only be appreciated by them, you will reap the benefits as your sexy time together just keeps getting better.
Do not take the sex for granted
No strings is a promised that you are not going to have the disbenefit of a relationship. This does not mean that you are guaranteed sex… so don’t show up like it is a done deal. Groom, look after yourself and your body. Dress like you would for any date where you are hopeful and you will not be disappointed.
Check in with yourself – are you happy with the situation?
Many people are focused on the other person. Are they still happy, are they still comfortable with it being a fuck buddy no-strings situation? What about you? Are you still happy that you are casual dating? We are programmed from a young age to think that when we sleep with someone that we should form an attachment to that person. It is also hard wired into our biology to a degree. If you find yourself wondering whether or not you are starting to really want more, then be honest with yourself about it. Check in, and if this is the case be honest and talk to the other person. At best they feel the same, at worst they do not but you are able to nip the issue in the bud before it grows into something bigger that is far more damaging later on.
There are my top tips. Follow them and you can have a happy, long term fuck buddy.
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