So you had a girlfriend/boyfriend that you were serious about, or maybe a casual one. Perhaps you had a husband or wife, or maybe it was a holiday fling. Perhaps we are talking about a fuck buddy. Even when there is a no strings attached relationship in place and both sides know it is temporary, even then parting can hurt sometimes. So whether it was a full on monogamous relationship or someone you slept with only a few times a year and even then only during an orgy when there are a minimum of 10 other people involved, if you have parted company permanently and are feeling bad about it, then this article is for you. Remember, there is zero judgement about the whys and hows of the parting, or even the nature of the relationship, it actually doesn’t matter. Sometimes the most surprising of partings can leave you in a funk.
So you are feeling bad at the moment, and this is something that needs to be addressed and changed as soon as possible. There will be a natural amount of time that is required for you to bounce back / recover, and that time will be based on the relationship that you got out of, how many times you slept with each other, how intense things were. So these tops tips will function to help accelerate and speed up you recovery process, aiming to get you back to your A game as quickly as possible.
Have Sex with someone else – NOW
This is without a doubt the most powerful way to help you bounce back. People talk commonly about a “rebound” relationship – their mistake is talking about it negatively. A rebound is a great thing, and will help you recover fast. Remember the other person also wins – they got laid didn’t they? Win win!
Remember the bad times
They always say remember the good times. I call bullshit. Remember the bad times is what I reckon. Think about all the reasons that *you* were originally doubting the relationship, all the reasons that you might have chosen to end it and move on. No coupling is perfect so I *know* that there are a bunch of things you can think of. Remember these, and thus remind yourself that the parting is also a hugely positive thing for you.
Enjoy the freedom
There is a bunch of freedoms that come with the parting. You also gain back a bunch of time and energy that you can spend elsewhere on other parts of your life. Use these immediately. The sooner you take advantage of them, the sooner you will feel the benefits of the parting.
So get out there and get on with your life. It is yours to lead – so enjoy it.
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