Today I am going to be talking to you about sex in the city… and I am not talking about the American television show aimed at a largely aging female demographic. Instead, I am talking about having sex in whilst in the city. The ups and the downs of your love life if you are (un)lucky enough to like in a big city. This could of course be any city at all, but for now I am going to (for the purposes of this article) restrict myself to talking about London as my example. Why London you ask? Being one of the greatest cities in Europe if not the world, and a hot bed tourist attraction as a place to come, it serves as a great example of what life is like living in the city.
The big down to your sex life when living in the city.
Cities are expensive, and London is no exception to this. Whilst it may be one of the greatest cities in the world, the price tag seems to correctly reflect this! Even the base costs are high. The rent, the food, the day to day costs of living are really quite something. This means that to live here you have to work hard, really hard, to make ends meet. This means working long hours, working weekends sometimes, and the stress levels can be quite high.
The problem with this in terms of your sex life, is the question of where you fit it in? When do you have time to take people out, to spend time with them and get to know them, to build connection let alone drag them back to yours to get naked with?
The big upside – maximum choice!
Dating can be a bit of a numbers game. Meeting the right person or compatible people can be time consuming and in smaller villages the choice simply isn’t there. With a city you have maximum choice! You are drowning in potential partners! There are girls and guys everywhere you look, and the best thing is they come in two broad types, both of which are ripe for the picking for their own specific reasons.
The tourist! They want adventure, and they want passion. They want it now and in a week they will be gone… so this is an easy way to sleep with someone the first time you meet them, and then never have to see them ever again no matter how it goes! This is a great way to clock up your numbers.
The local! They are in the same position as you, they are time starved, busy, so they also don’t want the commitment of long dates! They will slip into your lifestyle really well, and will be up for going straight to the bedroom without the faf of the long dates every time.
Either way you are in a winning position, with a sexy night just around every corner.
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