It’s happened to even the most oversexed people. There comes a time in everyone’s life when no matter how much you want it, sex just isn’t happening for you. Oh sure, you might have signed up to f-buddy with the view that it will instantly mean hooking up with a fuck buddy and getting laid. Well we hate to be the first ones to say it, but that isn’t always the case. You do have to put some effort in to be successful in having sex whatever method you decide to try.
However experiencing a sex drought can be demoralising and actually affect your concentration in other areas of your life. So we’ve come up with a short guide on how to overcome this, score the fuck buddy of your choice and enjoy yourselves. It is just a guide so do remember that there are some ways that will work for you and some that won’t. Try them all and see what happens.
Our top ways to end a sex drought
1. Talk to your elders
Whilst the prospect of talking about your sex life with your Mum and Dad sounds as attractive as volunteering for duty in Afghanistan, there are many older people who can serve as great guides. Elderly people in particular may surprise you with their insight into breaking a sex drought – they’ve been around (and at it) a lot longer then you. Find an elderly person (be it your grandparents, friends, distant cousins whatever!) and have at it verbally. Remember; they love to match make and swap stories.
2. Get out
We don’t mean right now, but remember that your bedroom is for having sex not for finding sex. In order to hook up with that ideal fuck buddy you really do have to get up and out in order to live your life and meet new people. Whether that means grabbing a coffee in a Costa or Starbucks in the morning rather then at your kitchen table or doing some work in a bar instead of your office…do it! You’re more likely to have people pay attention to you if like…they can actually see you.
3. Be realistic with your expectations
Just because someone has big tits or a huge cock doesn’t mean they’re the ideal fuck buddy for you. Be realistic about the kind of person and body type you’re attracted to. Personality comes into play a lot in a casual relationship so it’s important you don’t just go for the first busty blonde or ripped guy you see. They might be the right buddy for you, they might not. Be honest and realistic with yourself and the people you choose to contact about what you want and like.
4. Embrace Sex
Society places a huge amount of importance on committed monogamous relationships. We’re not here to judge as these are fulfilling and wholly desirable to many of us. However not enough attention is paid to the importance of sex and how important it can be to keep having it when not in a committed or monogamous relationship. Sex is a biological desire and need we all have – so embrace it! Don’t fear it! You’re here because you like, need and want sex. Being honest about it will only help you out. Lying about it will not.
5. Use social networks to your advantage
We don’t just mean online either. Whilst it’s great to use Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr (and of course F-buddy) to connect with new people, it’s equally as important to use your existing friendship and social groups to get out and about. You might meet the perfect fuck buddy right here, but we’d be as equally happy if you hooked up with someone you meet in a bar on a night out as well. Use online and offline to their full advantage.
Happy hunting and remember the above rules; if you’re in a drought, don’t panic. Just relax and try our advice. You may be surprised at how quickly things turn around.
Happy fucking!
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