The coronavirus has arrived and everything else has promptly been shut down by it. People are no longer allowed to go to the pub, and even those that would have chosen to break the rule no longer have an open pub to go to. All the places that you might have met or taken a fuck buddy to before an evening of passion have been closed down: restaurants, cafes, cinemas, bars… you aren’t even allowed to take a walk in a park holding hands unless your hands are 2 metres long! This can mean there may be a period where you cannot have sex… particularly if you find yourself inside a 7 or 14 day quarantine period where you really should not touch anyone else. During these times, how can you keep things hot? There are creative ways to keep the sexual fires burning during any gap that you might have. So to help you out, here are my top tips on how to stay sexy with your fuckbuddy while social distancing.
Sexting
Sexting is something that you probably did when you were in the very early stages with your fuck buddy. It is also something that usually dies off pretty quickly as it is replaced with actual sex. Sexting can be a great thing to go back to. You both have probably already done it, likely with each other, so it is comfortable and you both know what you are doing with it. Sending each other sexy or dirty messages is a great way to turn each other on remotely, reminding your fuck buddy exactly why they chose you.
Phone sex
Phone sex can be great. As humans, we are generally quite reliant on what we see, on visual stimulus. However, when it comes to having sex, we can be as turned on as easily by all the other senses: the touch on our skin, the taste of another person’s sweat and salt, the sound of another person’s pleasure! Sound plays a key part of our sexual experience, and phone sex can transmit all of this, live, both from and to your fuck buddy. Try giving your fuck buddy a call then start to talk dirty… remember to make sure that you and they are alone when you start, you want to be able to join in physically.
Video Sex
Technology is now at a point where video calls are clean, high quality and completely free to make. This opens up a whole new sexual world where you can now see and hear your fuck buddy from a distance. Why not take advantage of this by giving your sex partner a call one evening, then turn the conversation to subjects a little raunchier than usual. There are all sorts of games that can be played as well. A personal favourite is where you agree that you are going to tell each other what to do and they will obey. You can take it in turns to control their body, telling them what to do step by step till you bring them to orgasm… all from the comfort of your armchair. Once you have done it for them, they are going to be sure to want to return the favour!
So there are my top tips to staying sexy with your fuckbuddy while social distancing is still in place. Remember, you only have to get through the quarantine period together before you can go back to having real sex, so all of this could just be seen as extended foreplay!
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