Don’t get us wrong; sex is great! We love it and we know you do too. But how much sex should we be having? According to several medical studies which we have cited in this blog, sex should be conducted on a daily basis to ensure a long and healthy life. However at the other end of the scale there are things to consider. Are you skipping meals and other important (read: essential) activities in order to get your end away?
Ian Kerner, a sex therapist in the US, suggests that sexual attraction and sexual compatibility are the basis of the best relationships. No shit Sherlock. However sex is a physical activity as well as a mental one and if overdone, can lead to injury, obsession and fuck ups.
What are we saying?
Look, we’re just trying to be honest. We know you’re on this site to fuck each other’s brains out to your hearts collective content and we wholeheartedly support you doing that. However we would be pretty irresponsible if we didn’t discuss the negative effects as well as the positives that sex can bring.
Many sex therapists including Ian Kerner believe that having sex several times a week is healthy and doesn’t place an unnecessary burden on either party. Having loads of sex is fine; as long as both partners enjoy it. However we all know that as human beings we get tired mentally and physically and because of this if we have too much sex it’s easy to stop enjoying it and actually start dreading it.
And that’s the last thing you want.
So how much should we have to keep it enjoyable?
As much as you’re both comfortable with. If one partner feels they aren’t getting enough, but the other partner feels it’s too much then you need to talk about it with each other. There’s nothing worse (or more dishonest) then someone suffering in silence as that’s when the sex stops being enjoyable.
Ideally you need to find a healthy balance that’s right for you. If having sex everyday really suits your needs then great! If sex once or twice a week suits your needs, great! If sex a couple of times a month suits your needs, great too!
Just make sure the partner of fuck buddy you hook up with is on the same wave length as you. Once you are, you’ll both be enjoying sex the way it’s meant to be enjoyed: together.
Happy fucking!
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