When we think of having sex, we generally focus on the intercourse. Man and woman meet. They get turned on, man gets hard and woman gets wet. Man puts dick inside woman. They fuck till woman and man come. The end.
Actually there is a lot more that does go on that simply a penis meeting a vagina... and there is so much more that you can use in order to turn on and be turned on that just your genitals. Lets talk about that now. When reading this I expect that there are many things that you will recognise as things you are already doing but have never really thought about before as part of the sex. When you do – well done you! Keep doing it and think about how you can increase or expand what you are doing with it. If you read this and you are doing nothing – then get involved immediately! You are currently missing out on a world of amazing sex that you can be part of with just a simple change today. So get stuck in.
Kissing
Obvious – but you will be surprised at the number of people that kiss less and less as they get older. Kissing is a fundamental turn on. Do it.
Now lets talk about how to kiss. Most of you are already kissing, but remember that there are different ways that you can choose to kiss. You can kiss hard or soft, fast or slow. You can kiss in a gentle just saying hi way, or an aggressive I want to fuck your brains out kind of a way. Remember you have this option!
Your tongue
Your tongue is an amazing tool in the art of sex. It is soft, flexible and pre lubricated. It can be used to tease, tantalise and titillate someone into a full orgasm! I am not saying you should take them all the way – but using your tongue to travel some of the distance to orgasm is a good idea. That is for both men and women.
Your fingers
The major thing that separates us from the apes is our opposable thumbs! Our hands have allowed us to build tools, and are one of the cornerstones of our civilisation that we like in. If hands can put a man in space, they can certainly put someone into an uncontrollable orgasm. Use your hands more. Think about the pressure with your fingers. Are you pressing hard or soft? Are you holding or stroking? And a little trick, a quick lick of the fingers acts as a great lubricator for when you are using them directly on the very sensitive genital areas.
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