Using Candles during sex – and for more than just lighting!

Candles are brilliant, like really really great. They have a whole load of really positive effects on your sex life at such little cost and effort! In my earlier article that I wrote about using candles during sex I covered all the great reasons that you should be getting and lighting up some flame before you rip the clothes from your eagerly awaiting fuck buddy and show her a great time. I covered the more vanilla elements of it. The heat that it gives off, the way you look better in good lighting and how you will be more turned on because your fuck buddy will also look better in the flattery setting that candles provide. I even talked about how cheap they are! What I did not cover as one f-buddy member wrote in and pointed out, is there during sex as a sex toy. I would like to correct this immediately by covering this now.

Candles are an amazingly fun thing to play around with during sex. There is something really primeval about having sex, there is something base and almost caveman about having a really good fuck. When you really take someone, there is nothing like it for both of you. Flame and fire is the same. There is something primordial, base and powerful about fire and flame. It taps into that same unstoppable power that isn’t created by man – it existed before we did and will be around after we are gone. It taps into that same powerful nature, and as such it an excellent complimentary element to have in your space when you want to have really great sex.

So how would you use them? Well firstly you can use the heat. The skin responds to the touch of the other person, and varying that can be very powerful. If you hold your hand above a candle for a few seconds your hand will quickly heat up. Apply that warmed hand or fingers to a nipple and see the reaction, put your fingers somewhere more sensitive and you will get an even more powerful response!

You can also use the wax to “burn” your partner. The thing about wax is that it feels really hot – burning hot – but it cools so quickly on the skin that actually it leaves almost no marks and actually does no damage to the skin. Thus you can “burn” your partner without actually hurting them at all. It is really fun – for both of you.

So grab some candles and get them (and your sex life) burning!