What Women Want in Bed

Sex for guys is relatively straightforward: we see a woman we fancy and we want to shag her. It sounds primeval and caveman like, and it is. Yet you might be surprised to know that women can be almost as primeval and cavewoman like about sex as men are. Following several surveys that were conducted by numerous publications including Cosmopolitan, Ask Men and many more, it turns out that what women want in bed actually fulfils a lot of male desires and fantasies. This makes sense when you think about it as otherwise men and women would have stopped having sex for fun a long long time ago. So what do women want exactly?

More Aggression
All that bullshit you read about women wanting a nice sensitive partner in the bedroom is actually bullshit. Nearly 80% of women surveyed admitted that they liked their partner to take charge and be more aggressive in the bedroom. Anything from lightly pulling her hair, to spanking her arse are all wanted by women. We’re not saying to go out and smack your bitch up, but it might be worth taking more control in the bedroom and seeing how your fuck buddy reacts.

Go Down More
A top complaint from many women is that men don’t go down on them enough during sex. I’ve forgotten how often we’ve talked about this, but I know I’ve written about it before a lot. Come on guys! Going down on a woman is fun! Not only does it get her wetter than the Niagra falls, it makes her want you to fuck her even more after you’ve given her an orgasm.

Dirty Nasty Filthy Talk
Yep – women want you to not only talk dirty; they want you to be absolutely filthy about it too. The worse your cursing the better. Colourful language isn’t an adequate enough description for what women want.

Treat Me Like A Whore
I admit that this one surprised me, but a lot of women want a man to not always be so gentle and loving in the bedroom. Sometimes they just want you to treat them like someone they just want to fuck. This one will take some getting used to as many men don’t feel comfortable treating their partners – even casual partners – like a prostitute.

Focus On Me
A top complaint from women is that not enough men focus on them during sex. A lack of eye contact and kissing and touching are often cited by women. Simple way to solve this guys – focus totally on your lady and she will focus totally on you in return.