Through years of cultural and spiritual teachings we have nearly all been taught to fear and deny our sexuality to all but our closest lovers. Even in these situations all too often we are still too afraid to share our more 'extreme' fantasies or fetishes with our close lovers. This is not something that can be ignored because if you do attempt to you will be socially expelled and considered strange if not scary to others. This is not their fault, as much as it is not your fault as well. As stated previously these are the social norms that we have all been brought up to conform to and fighting against that will be a vast waste of energy.
That being said though this norm when accepted completely without question or any skepticism can be exceptionally damaging and even dangerous to yourself or others. Let me explain.
Nature
We are nearly all born with strong natural sexual instincts. These desires are so strong so that we as a species will reproduce and continue the human race. Very simple concepts, but the really interesting thoughts about our sexual nature and biology come when we look at the other benefits to both our physical and mental health through embracing our sexuality without restraint or shame (as much as can be attained in the world we live in). The cocktail of natural drugs that flood our systems when we have sex is so potent that they can fuel us to be so much more than we alone can be. Not to mention the despair and stress that can and does affect people when they are not able to express their sexuality for extended periods of time or even having not done so at all.
Culture
This combination of wonderful changes that come about through sex truly make us all better more rounded people. It lets us connect with others on a level that can make us more empathically understanding of others. We often are sexually attracted to those that are very different to ourselves and so that connection forces an understanding and cooperation between groups that otherwise may avoid one another without sex to unite them. This leads to a society that is both closer to oneself personally and simultaniously able to share common ground with others that will strain and stress their assumptions and beliefs.
Love
Ultimately open and passionate sex is a form of love expression that is closest to the heart of every one of us and opening up our sexuality as a group will make us all more loving and kind to one another which helps to free us of our harsher and crueler instincts and wounds that hurt us. Sex heals these wounds and turly brings us closer, so do not feel shame in your sexuality but pride and passion. Seek out fuck buddies that you can share this passion with and make yourself and the world around you better for it.
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