Everyone who’s ever gone down on someone else or had someone go down on them knows for a fact that it takes practise to be good at oral sex. For women oral sex is sometimes the only way to achieve orgasm. That means a guy has to be good when he’s going below. Men are pretty easy to get off, but there are lessons to be learned by any woman who thinks she’s great at blow jobs. You have to know exactly how to titillate a man’s penis in order to get him to come properly. So below are the best ways to sort yourself and your partner out when you go down.
1. Cunnilingus
Every guy likes a good blow job. Cunnilingus is the equivalent for women and involves the expert use of your tongue. It’s not just about licking her vagina out like a dog; it’s about using your tongue as the best stimulator in the world. Vary the rhythm, the flow and the speed. Don’t just focus on one spot, focus on the whole area.
2. Foreplay
This is essential to good oral sex. Have the fun of sex itself is the build up to it. The same is true of oral sex. Use your hands, your mouth, and your body to titillate and rev up your partner for the main show.
3. Listen
Newsflash: it’s rare for a woman to scream when she orgasms. Instead you need to listen to the sounds she makes whilst you’re giving her vagina the attention it deserves. Listen to the sounds, and the way her body responds and you’ll soon hear her reach a hugely satisfying climax.
4. Focus
When it comes to oral sex you need to focus on the details. When going down on a woman this means you need to be focused on not just the clitoris but everything in that area: the anal muscles, the labia area just outside the entrance to the vagina, the clitoris and the inner thighs are all hyper sensitive. Pay attention to each of them and all of them.
5. Blowjob strategy
If you’re a woman giving a guy a blow job for the very first time then you need to know that the same detail and attention we give to you should be given to us. It’s not just about sucking and bobbing up and down. It’s about the way you stroke, lick, and move your mouth around and up and down our shaft.
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