Whilst we all know that every bloke can make himself come within a minute if he wants to, a woman is a whole different kettle of fish. At first, she and she alone knows exactly where and how to touch herself to the point that her panties are dripping with pleasure. So a question that was bandied about the office yesterday was how can you make a woman come without having sex?
Easier then you think
This will sound daft, but women have been coming for centuries without the need of dick. Therefore if you know exactly which areas to hit and how much time to spend on them, you can master her orgasm without so much as a hint of penetration.
Be comfortable
This is the first rule for making any women come. You have to be relaxed and chilled in order for it to stand any chance of success. If you’re not comfortable, she won’t be either and you can kiss any chance of getting her close to orgasm goodbye.
Kiss Kiss Bang Bang!
A good make out session can be just the thing to stoke the fires down below without the need of your stick. Stimulating the lips, mouth, tongue can arouse other areas of the body and have led to whole body orgasms for some women. Try lightly sucking on an earlobe before breathing closely around her neck and chin working your way up slowly to her lips and kissing her on the mouth.
Breasts and Nipples
Possibly one of the most sensitive areas of a woman’s body; touching, kissing and caressing these lightly can be orgasmic. Breasts share a neural pathway with the vagina leading the brain to connect them with orgasm. This explains why stimulating a woman’s nipples can be so pleasurable as they can lead to the same feelings that result from touching her vagina and clitoris.
Hypersensitivity
Some people have incredibly sensitive necks and shoulder areas, and one woman I went out with had a multiple orgasm just from me kissing, touching and breathing on the shallow space between her neck and shoulder. Known as skin orgasms, these connect to the vaginal area through nerve endings and can result in some incredibly powerful (and unique!) orgasms for women.
Every girl has her spots…
The trick to this is that there is no trick. Every girl has certain areas that are more sensitive then anywhere else. Try hitting all these areas with your fuck buddy and see what the results are. Spend time with each and you will quickly learn how to bring off your woman without even getting your dick out.
Happy fucking...or not in this case…
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