It is Christmas time, lights are being put out by everyone, cupboards are being stocked with mince pies, and bottles of wine and bubbly are cooling in the fridge ready to be drunk. People are getting into the holiday spirit, and are ready to have a good time. Whether their lives are good or bad at the moment, everyone wants to take a moment to put that aside and just have a good time. For some people this is a bit of a time of escape from their day to day lives, a time to forget what ever hardships they may be facing and celebrate the joy of simply being alive. For other people it is a pause from all the hard work and a moment to be able to reflect on all they have a achieved, a moment to be a little self indulgent and revel in their victories. Regardless of what end of the spectrum you are coming from, it is a great time to be with someone and have amazing sex.
Whilst good sex can be guaranteed to **not** happen if the actual physical act is done badly, doing it really well doesn’t guarantee outstanding sex. A lot of it comes from the build up and the context. This is where the power of Christmas can be harnessed in order to have amazing sex.
The Christmas Context
The context of where and how one has sex can have a lot to do with how it goes. An easy example is having sex somewhere you shouldn’t, say outdoors, at a club, in a church... you can take this as far as you like! I met a girl recently who had a real thing for wanting to have sex in a lift – fulfilling that fantasy blew her mind. To me it was just sex, but to her it was another level.
Christmas brings a context that can really make for amazing sex. There is this up vibe all around, and all you have to do is cash in on it. Kissing someone hard under the mistle toe can be a real easy turn on for people, walking back to theirs/yours past all the Christmas lights can really help the happy feeling in the run up, eating really good food or drinking some great bubbly before again can be a great ice breaker. Everyone looks better under dimmer mood lighting, and the excuse to use only fairly lights in your house is one that is not to be missed out on.
Bonus: Racing present
If you have always wanted to try something a little kinky but never had the guts to do it – this is a great time to use the Christmas excuse to do it too. Giving someone as a present a kinky item that then gets used is a great way to introduce it to the room.
Go forth and have a great Christmas.
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