Sex is often branded as a single thing as we only have one primary word for it. Yet it comes in so many different flavours and colours. You can do it fast or slow, soft or hard. You can fuck someone out of an uncontrollable desire, or out of hatred and angry. There is make up sex, there is break up sex. There is sex that quells and stills insecurities and fears, there is sex that is already free from all these things and becomes nothing but pleasure. There is sex as an expression of commitment to the other person, and there is sex that is the complete opposite to this! There is hello sex, and good bye sex, and good afternoon sex. There is wake up morning sex that sets you up for the day like a champion, and good night sex that will have you asleep and resting like you have not a care in the world. Today I want to talk about fucking.
Fucking as opposed to making love
I want to acknowledge the list above – there are many ways to have sex and all of them are valid. However here today I am going to talk only about one type – fucking.
Definition of fucking
Fucking is when you really take someone / are taken. It is that primal instinct manifest, that moment when you let go of all the modern training of how one should act in a civilised way, and instead allow your pure desires to have the other person take hold. When you fuck someone, you take all that you are without though or fear or hold back, and thrust that to the very forfront of what you are offering the other person. You fuck them. When you are being fucked, you take all that you are without fear or holding back , and you open yourself up to be done with in any way the other person chooses.
Fuck. Fucking is amazing.
Why fuck
You can do all the other forms of sex, but when you really fuck it allows for a connection that goes beyond logic, thought or the mind. It is a whole body experience. To fuck is to really be without barriers.
It is core to you – it is right – be not afraid of it
People shy away from it, and I understand why. You have to have no fear to really fuck. To put yourself on the line like and trust in the other person, that it is going to be okay. To be rejected in this moment could permanently scar someone. It is a core part of you – so trust it, and set your fear to one side.
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