Know what you want – don’t be afraid to choose it

This article is a relationship management article – it presumes that you already have a girl/boy that is either a long / short term relationship, a fuck buddy, a part timer or even someone you are just starting to date. This advice will not help you find someone – it will however help you get laid / be attractive / keep that person in your life for as long as you want them in your life.

This is about being attractive. No there are many things that will make someone attractive. The obvious one is the way they look, and there are some things you can do about this. Watch what you eat, get some exercise on a regular basis, and develop some fashion sense! Genetics gives you what you have, it is up to you how you present that to the world.

Other things will affect your attractiveness based on the other person – it really does depend on what you are looking for in someone and what they are looking for in you. It is not worth thinking too hard about these elements, focus on finding someone who likes however you are built in this way – not changing those things to meet with the expectations of someone else. So what is the one of the big things that you can do that will keep you attractive to someone of the opposite sex?

Know what you want, and ask for it. Once you are with someone in some capacity, and it really doesn’t matter if you are married or if it is a fuck buddy, the same rule of strength applies. The other person wants to be with someone who knows what they want and goes for it. Someone with some strength, some metal to their character. Now I am not saying you have to be a high flyer business person, I am just saying don’t be a push over. One way to express this is to know what you want, and to ask for it.

If you are going out and you want to have pizza, they ask where do you want to eat, you have 2 choices of response:

1. I don’t mind – where do you want to go?
2. I really want pizza. I know a great local place that does the best dough balls as starter, fancy that?

The first one is limp and unattractive. The second one is strong, attractive and the other person will be grateful for being with someone who has an opinion. They will like you more for it, and the best part is you also get to eat what you want – pizza! Bonus, right?

This applies across the board to all sorts of stuff, and in fact in all areas of your life. You aren’t always going to know what you actually want, so you can’t implement it all the time like this, but when you do, ask for it. You get what you want, and the other person will want to fuck you more for it, not less.