If you are out for a night out and you are single, you are probably really up for getting laid on that night out if you can make it happen. I am not saying that it is the focus of your night, I am not saying that you wouldn’t have a good time if you didn’t sleep with someone at the end of it (or even during it for that matter!). What I am saying is that it usually adds to an evening if you get laid whilst out. A good night is a good story, and that always makes it a better story – besides is there any high greater than that of having sex? The very survival of our very species depends on us being addicted to that high! Naturally it is one of the best feelings that we can experience. So if you are on a night out clubbing, how do you pull?
Pub rules are all out
The usual rules of pulling in a pub are all out of the window. Usually in a pub you would make eye contact, go and start a conversation in some way, do a little playful back and forth, a little pushing them away and pulling them in, start touching them on the arm or the lower back more and more until eventually you kiss them. This is a long tried and tested sequence. In a club all of this goes out of the window for one reason – the noise.
The noise kills all other approached
Any approach that you may have had from when you were at a party or in a pub go out the window when you have no way of being heard. Trying to use language or even speaking is just hard work, and the other person has no reason to try and listen to you at that point, they have no idea who you are so there is no reason for them to try and hear you! So give up on this.
Go physical
The only way to pull in a club is to go super physical. Make eye contact strong and early, then confidently more straight in by dancing with them physically, escalate the physical contact quickly, then pull them in and kiss them. Done. There is no other approach that you can take! The noise kills any other option, so don’t even bother trying anything else but this!
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