The Orgy Orgasm

A lot of our members list ‘orgies’ as part of their sexual interests and it got us all thinking about this area of casual sex. Having never attended an orgy, yours truly volunteered to do a spot of detective work and find out more about this rarely-talked-about-in-polite-conversation area of sex.

How to find an Orgy?
I hit a brick wall from day one.

For some reason I just could not find any information on how to go about having an orgy or even where I could go to attend an orgy to…you know…try it out. I had Googled my computer to death and all I had back from the search results was a long list of porn sites. I was genuinely baffled that in the age of the internet – the world’s best telephone directory – this community still seemed to be incredibly difficult to find.

What to do?

I decided to drop it into some casual conversation with a bunch of my friends when out for drinks. I was stunned by the reactions!

Swing your way in
Swinging has been a community all in itself for decades, so I don’t know why I was so surprised to learn that several of my couple friends were into it. At first when I broached the subject of orgies, they got a little fidgety and I could tell they were uncomfortable talking about it. That just piqued my curiosity even further so I pushed a little and after several rounds of drinks, they opened up and began talking about some of the regular swinging parties they attended with other couples who were into it.

“Do you have to be a couple to do it?” was my natural question and the answer was generally a “yes” but apparently it isn’t essential. They suggested a few girls they knew who were technically single but up for swinging and group sex. I left that night with three new numbers and a heartbeat bordering on ‘dangerously high’ as I called each.

The Orgy Orgasm
I got one girl who for the purpose of anonymity I will call ‘Sarah’; agree to attend a swingers party at a couple’s house that my friends recommended. Sarah was not a swinger virgin so I didn’t mind her leading the way and making the introductions when we got inside the house. Thankfully my friends weren’t there (we had agreed beforehand for the sake of my first time nerves, they wouldn’t attend), so it was relatively easy to talk and chat.

After a while Sarah suggested we move the party into the hot tub the couple had in their back garden. I watched her and the 8 other men and women strip off casually in the living room before trooping outside to the garden, glasses of wine and beer in hand.

I was the last to get naked and get outside, but Sarah was great and led me all the way.
Once we’d all settled into the hot tub, the girls started flirting with each other and playing with the bubbles whilst several of the guys just chatted and occasionally kissed one of the girls when she moved over next to him. It was all quite tame for a while.

Until someone brought out a little buzzer and announced that we were all going to play a game called ‘Dinner Time’.

The rules were a bit like spin the bottle except each person was the focus of attention from everyone else when the buzzer went. Each of us received uncontrolled sexual attention – blow jobs, kisses, sensual massages, fingering – for ten minutes. I was actually gasping when one girl finished sucking me off when the buzzer went to move onto the next person.

The Party Inside
After we’d each had a turn, we were all so turned on no one said a word when we collectively trooped inside and either went to the living room or upstairs in threes and twos to have sex.

I was actually drained by the time we’d all finished and were chilling out with stupid grins on our faces. Sarah had sex with me first whilst another girl was kissing me and another guy was licking her out from underneath. After that things got a little blurry.

Next time
I left about 5 in the morning the next day and limped home – it was hard work! – and thought a lot about what had just happened. My very first orgy and my body was so overloaded with sensations that I didn’t really know what to think!

By the time I got home the only thing I did know for certain was that I had enjoyed the evening more then I thought I would.

Is it for everyone?
I’ll let you know; I’m off to another party next week to see if my enjoyment wasn’t just a random one off occurrence. I can imagine orgies aren’t for everyone, but the one thing I do know is that they do open your eyes to the multitude of sexual play there is to be had out there.