getting good at sex
Why getting good as sex is a life investment
As we grow older we get better at nearly everything that we do. When we are first born we can’t even walk, but as adults we are so good at it we never even have to think about walking! There are many things that we master to a high skill level without consciously having to make an effort to get good at it, not just walking. Talking, eating with cutlery, making “niceties” with other people. There are also some things that we can learn to do at a functional level without active effort, but without deciding to get better at them, we rarely make it past the “okay” rating. These include playing...
How to have amazing sex: Part 1 – emotion
When we think about sex, we generally think of it in physical terms. You meet someone, you get hard, you start to think that you really want to fuck them... then hopefully you end up fucking them. I mean that’s certainly what generally happens here at f-buddy, because everyone is here for the same thing, they all want to get laid, it generally results in everyone, well, getting laid!
So when people think about the times they have great sex, they remember it being good, but they rarely think about why it was good. What made it really good sex, as opposed to the times when sex was...