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Sex doesn’t start in the bedroom, it just ends there
Sex doesn't start in the bedroom. It usually happens in the bedroom, but good sex doesn't start in the bedroom. It starts in the minds of the two people that are about to have sex. The anticipation that leads up to the act, the planning, the time that is spent desiring it, wanting it, waiting for it...
The build up is as important to a good session as the session itself. Everyone loves a decent main course, but when you go out for the experience of having dinner, you go out not just to satisfy your carnal desire to consume, but to be able to enjoy the time spent on the eating. There...
Selection is 90% of what makes it work – so start with sex
True Story: Last week I met a girl I hadn't seen in a literally years. It was great to see and have a proper catch up – from what I could tell she seemed both well and happy – and truth be told as good looking as ever! So after 5 minutes she wheels out her boyfriend, and after talking for a bit it transpires that the boyfriend is in fact the fiancé. I asked the inevitable question of where they had met, and the answer was Tinder.
Now the main thing that tinder has going for it is that it is based on photos – physical attraction is the primary tool with which you “select” the person...
Good sex is the foundation stone of any relationship whether casual or serious
In Britain we have always struggled with discussing the issue of sex. This has been part of the culture since well before I was born, and can clearly be seen in our art – the most clearly defined being the long running west end hit “No Sex Please, We’re British” which ran for almost a decade playing to full houses the whole way. The influence of American films and television have sensationalised sex, delivering to us footage of long standing sex scenes that seem to go on for hours... something which rarely happens in real life.
So we are presented with 2 options, never talk about...
Fifty Shades - an old desire that people are now acting on.
The massive success of Fifty shades of Grey, hasn’t really surprise the majority of women.
So the majority of women lust after a dominate successful partner. Well it’s always been that way. They just learn to deal with it. Most the time women would tingle for that kind of man, but their head would rule out and a they would find themselves a good man who would treat them well and help them raise a family.
What is surprising about the Grey phenomenon is that more and more women are starting to act on it. Seeking out those previously forbidden pleasures.
What is more...
Our Newest Members: Lana Loves Sex
Say hello to our newest member, Lana.
Lana loves the beach – especially the nudist ones. She likes to keep fit, though she needs someone to help her out – clitoral stimulation works best for her. Oh yes, and she likes sex. A lot. So much in fact that she’s here and looking for a suitable f-buddy to help her out in that department. Are you the buddy she’s looking for?
As long as you treat Lana right (be gentle with her), you’ll get what you want. She enjoys being submissive – likes a man to be a man – but she’s also up for trying new things. So tell her what you want...
“Fuck Buddy” now in the official Oxford English Dictionary
Exciting news, the term “Fuck Buddy” is currently in the official Oxford English Dictionary. It has been recognised by slang dictionaries early on, but the inclusion of the term as an officially recognised part of the language plays an important role in how we think as the British nation about sex as a whole. Allow me to expand on this a little.
There has been a long standing debate about whether our thoughts define out language, or whether language defines thought. Do the Eskimo–Aleut languages have far more variation on the way they can describe snow because they can see greater...
Why Vanilla Sex Works
"I wish [BDSM folks] would stop referring to me as 'vanilla.' If you're making the case that everyone should be free to do what they like without being judged, why call non-BDSM people a derogatory name that implies they're all prudish bores?" – Anonymous, commenter on Bitch.
You read a lot online and off about vanilla sex vs kinky sex. It seems to me that if you’re not that interested in the more heavy kinky stuff, you get judged for either being a prude or just inexperienced. As you can see from the comment above, I’m not alone in my theory. I’m here to tell you that...
Top 5 Mistakes People Make on the 1st Message
It’s a bit like a revolving subject this one, but the reason we and so many other blogs keep talking about it is because people (guys mostly I’m afraid) don’t seem to know what to say on their first message. Many people seem to think that the best way to grab a potential f-buddy’s attention is to talk about their penis or be unable to say anything other than ‘Hi Babe’. If you haven’t already figured it out, messages like these just go straight in the bin. Below we run through the top 5 mistakes people (mostly guys - sorry guys but its true!) make when sending their first message.
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Top 10 Places to Have Sex Around the World
You don’t have to an expert in the Kama sutra to enjoy a rich and varied sex life. Location can be just as important as position when it comes to having sex. And everyone is always looking to fuck in new places. Here are some of the top places we recommend you should have sex in – and the best bit is, you don’t have to a jet setting millionaire in order to try them out!
1. An Empty House
Preferably this works best if it’s your house. If not any old empty house will do. In fact it might even add to the thrill of having sex in a place that’s not technically yours.
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How to write a killer opening message
Opening lines are always hard to come up with. You see someone you like the look of from across the bar, you pluck up the courage to go up and say hello, and for reasons unknown your mouth goes dry, your throat seizes up and you just stand there gurgling awkwardly. Worse; you say something really stupid or insane that makes the person look at you oddly and walk away. Theoretically speaking it should be easier to come up with a really good opening line online! After all you have more time to think about what you’re going to say to a prospective f-buddy. Yet a lot of our users...
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