It’s something that everyone has been doing or tried at least once since mobile phones became common place. Sexting is something that can go incredibly right, or outrageously wrong depending on your point of view. To be successful at sexting (text messaging with a sexual undertone in case you’re new to this term), you need to be realistic about the type of relationship you’re in. As we are a site dedicated to the more casual relationship, we will focus on the do’s and don’ts of sexting in this context.
DO
Be Coy at first
Nothing screams ‘Desperate!’ more than blatant sexual overtures before you’ve even met the person you’re trying to get into bed. Be a little coy when you try sexting a new person for the first time.
DON’T
Send a picture of your genitals
Wrong! Wrong! Wrong! For some reason a lot of guys think that apping a picture of their penis to a potential fuck buddy is a huge turn on. Some women think that sending a picture of their vagina will have guys gagging for it. Clue: both are a huge turn off. The most powerful sexual organ of the body is the brain. Try using it a bit before sexting someone.
DO
Send provocative pics
Remember how we said that sending pics of your willy or pussy is wrong? Well sending pics of you in some sexy underwear or with your shirt of can be a little more alluring. The clue is in the word ‘allure’. You’re teasing at this point. That can be more a turn on then any dick or vag shot that you think might work.
DON’T
Text anything you don’t want other people to see
If the idea of a date’s friends seeing you in the nude or in your skimpies has your blood running cold then don’t send the pic. If the idea of someone other than your man/woman reading messages that would have you blushing in public, don’t send them. Sexting is as much of a modern art form as poetry. The idea is to arouse the intended recipient, not their friends.
DO
Share your fantasies
There are many ways of sharing your sexual fantasies and texting them to your fuck buddy is the way to get you both sexually simmering for one another.
DON’T
Sext before you’ve actually had sex
Before you’ve actually slept with them, don’t sext your partner. Again premature sexting will usually lead to absolutely no sex. Wait a little before you start doing it.
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