BDSM
An introduction to using rope to have kinky sex
Kinky sex has started to become a little more main stream – in many ways it feels like in a few decades time what is currently considered a little taboo and “naughty” might end up becoming just normal playing between adults! This does beg the question, how much of the enjoyment comes from the element of it being outside of the norm, of it being about pushing boundaries and being naughty. If it became normal would it a get a little boring, a little normal and therefore not that fun? From what I have experienced, I do not think that this is the case, I think that the act of being restrained...
What’s the deal with foot fetishes?
There are many people out there with a lot of different fetishes. In our creator’s infinite wisdom (or the randomness of evolution) we were all made to be different. We are different heights, different weights. Some of us are more academically intelligent than others of us. Some of us are built big and strong, able to carry large weights and manoeuvre objects with ease. A whole bunch of people are good at thinking tasks, and they spend their days sat in front of computer screens in offices dreaming of their wet dream of someone secretly crawly between their legs from under the table and...
Fabricated Fornication: Rubber, Latex and Leather
So you have done the usual sexy clothes. If you are a guy you have been out with your best pressed shirt and shined shoes, you have also been out looking “casual” like you threw on some jeans and a t-shirt whilst in the back of your heading know that you actually spent an hour agonising over what to wear and if the jeans looked casual enough or not! If you are a girl you have experienced all the attention one gets when you go out in a boob tube and a short skirt, as well as the attention you can also wield in a long dress depending on the setting you are in. So you know what it is like to...
Fifty Shades - an old desire that people are now acting on.
The massive success of Fifty shades of Grey, hasn’t really surprise the majority of women.
So the majority of women lust after a dominate successful partner. Well it’s always been that way. They just learn to deal with it. Most the time women would tingle for that kind of man, but their head would rule out and a they would find themselves a good man who would treat them well and help them raise a family.
What is surprising about the Grey phenomenon is that more and more women are starting to act on it. Seeking out those previously forbidden pleasures.
What is more...
Why Vanilla Sex Works
"I wish [BDSM folks] would stop referring to me as 'vanilla.' If you're making the case that everyone should be free to do what they like without being judged, why call non-BDSM people a derogatory name that implies they're all prudish bores?" – Anonymous, commenter on Bitch.
You read a lot online and off about vanilla sex vs kinky sex. It seems to me that if you’re not that interested in the more heavy kinky stuff, you get judged for either being a prude or just inexperienced. As you can see from the comment above, I’m not alone in my theory. I’m here to tell you that...
